Certain Way

The

Art of

Being

Certain

Life is confusing.
Life has so many distractions.
Life has failures.
Life is disappointing.
Life is unknown.

Upon seeing the top five expressions about life, can you tell yourself now how certain do you live? The statements that are posted above have no purpose of impressing a negative thought on your mind. Think about your life now? Can you relate to the above statements?

Wattle D. Wallace noted on his writing on the Science of Getting Rich that like action is like result, he called it THE CERTAIN WAY. This way is the best way to consider if a man wants to live a particular life. In order for him to arrive a particular destination he must know where he is specifically going and go there creatively.

The Art of Being Certain is an addition to the many ways of living a fuller and happier life. Long before I started writing here I created a certain idea over my head. I am certain that my writing has no goal of changing your life. Again, I am not here to change you but to give you the CHOICE of becoming yourself.

Life is confusing to people who are confused. You can never become a goal-oriented person if you do not know yourself. Life is not really confusing, it is only confusing if the person responsible in that life is confused. So clarify your vision, magnify your dream and understand your being. You can only become yourself when you accept who you are. Do not be too preoccupied, declare to yourself that LIFE IS NOT CONFUSING!


Life has so many distractions to people who entertain distractions. If you know yourself you will never allow distraction to distract you. What is it that you want to create? Are those things distracting you today can help you or bring you where you are going? Identify, Classify those distractions if they are worth entertaining. Never stay at one point, continuously go and grow because the more you stay the more you will be distracted and it will prolong you to get to your certain destination.

Life has failures but it shall never stop you from moving, going and keeping yourself certain. Giving up is failure's bestfriend but why will you give up? As saying goes, "When you think of giving up, remember the reason that held you from giving up." You already have invested something for your dreams when you face life's failure there is no choice of giving up. Fight, life has its own game, do not compete but create your game plan. Thrive to go as far as you can reach.

Life is disappointing if you are not satisfied with yourself. You live a certain life, if disappointment comes do not be disappointed, it is only for now but there is another day to work for. Create a life with more gratitude than disappointment. After a day, do not count on the things that disappoint you but on things that make you feel satisfied. Remember, you live a certain life and disappointment is not part of it. You live to be happy, to be successful, to be yourself - disappointment is not on your list. Be CERTAIN!

Life is unknown if you do not understand your life's purpose. How to be certain? Like action is like result - this is the Art of Being Certain. Act with known reason and known result is yours. Be yourself!

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The Law of Life

People from all ages who wanted to impress and express to people the secret, science or law of getting rich have made different titles on the power of man to change or create his own life.

Some call it the Power of Subconscious Mind, the Science of Getting Rich, the Secret, the Law of Attraction and so forth but these titles are just choices of words from people who envisioned to realized a book that can bring extraordinary motivation and result to its reader.

In my case I call it the Power of Faith. It has been repeatedly said on many writings and in bible, Believe and you shall receive them. No matter how impossible it is for you to achieve something think that you have the power to make things happen. You can never receive anything in life without even believing that you have them, you can have them no matter what.

Another phrase has been said, "you are what you think most of the time." In the game of life if you want to excel you need to have faith. Faith is our sharpest sword, it will harm no one. Think that you are successful. Grow yourself everyday.

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About the Person I Want to Be

I feel satisfied with the life that I have now. (August 26,2011) I'm 21 but life does not, should not, cannot, will not stop at one point. Life continuously changes. If one thing does not work well today - work for it over and over again. If it works, exceedingly work and work for more.

The Person I am not now that I want to Be Soon:

1. I want to be a father.
2. I want to be a public speaker motivating millions of people.
3. I want to build a home.
4. I want to retire before 35 and live a stable life.
5. I will never regret a day in my life.


I know the things that are posted here are very simple but I want to live with a life no limit. I will make it happen!

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Suicide

Everyone plays a role in our lives. Losing someone is like losing a part of our existence. Once you lose them, you lose them forever...


I was in so much pain 3 days after my birthday this year. I lost my bestfriend, to me she is like a sister. Together we dreamed, we fought, we enjoyed life and met God. I can still remember all the first times we did together. First times that became our last times now.

I don't want to live my life in regret but until now I am still hurting. Hurting knowing that I could have done something to stop her death. Now I am longing for her but I can never win her back. She is forever gone physically.

When I was in sorrow, weeping for her death I have seen a different reality and realized a thing about life. That is - You live one life, take good care of it.

I don't want to blame or condemn her from ending her own life but in her death I have learned so many things about RELATIONSHIP.

Before she died, I have not met her for almost 3 months. I was so busy in my work and I haven't put enough attention to her. My birthday was our last communication.

When she died I found out how hopeless and helpless she was before dieing. Her professors insulted her and broke her hopes into pieces as what she stated on her suicide note.

During her wake, I saw the pain of her family specially her mother, her friends and everyone else whom she inspired and cared during her lifetime.

After her death, I can feel the pouring love of her mother. I witnessed the support and prayers of her friends.

Now I realized four things out of those four scenarios. First,"Relationship deserves no better excuses." Never  say you can't come because you are busy. Once our family, our friend leaves us they leaves us forever. So try not to miss the chance of celebrating a life with them.

Second, "Breaking hopes is killing lives." If you can help yourself from not saying any hurting words to others, avoid them. The Bible says, "You shall not kill." Everyday is a blessing, never devastate that blessing from hurting the feeling of others. Respect people by becoming more sensitive.

Third, "Never make it a choice to end you own life." Again, I do not condemn my bestfriend from leaving this world on her own choice but I saw the pain of being left out. She was a beautiful woman, intelligent, faithful to God and a fighter. If you consider ending your own life think again, How many people will suffer from losing you? Who will be in pain in missing you? What will happen to the sacrifices and love of the people around you? Who will play your role in the life of others?

Finally, "Once you die, you die." God promises a life of happiness. God has a plan. What will happen to those plans? For now, I am seeing her death as a blessing for me to inspire other people. I know she lived a very meaningful years on earth, she cared and touched many lives in her days, she gave a wonderful smile to everyone around. Her death is not the end. I have forgiven myself now from not doing a thing to stop her death, maybe it was God's plan - we can never tell but God loves us unconditionally, that is a fact.

After my eyes, I saw how she accepted Christ as her personal savior. God is fair. May she rest in peace. I love her and I want my love for her to move me in making other lives meaningful, to save the hopeless by giving them hope. Life is a journey, I will have my own journey with our sweet memories.

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