Likability from Within

Well liked or Well hated?

Do you know how it feels to be liked? Likability is a very essential foundation for you to be happy. But how to you do this?

Before I tell you how let me tell you this fact, "You can never be liked by others if you will not like yourself first." As saying goes, "As above is below, As within is without."


It is obvious now that for you to be liked, you need to like yourself. Likability is not only judged according to external beauty but of heart. It is seen not on the outside but from within.

Likability starts from within. So let us relate this to the Certain Way by remembering the following notes:

* If you like yourself, people will like you.
*If you accept yourself, people will accept you.
*If you are happy, people with remain happy with you.
*If you reflect goodwill, people will do the same.
*If you work with efficiency, people will be working with you well.
*If you do not disagree, people with agree on you.
*If you take care of yourself, people will respect you.
*If you are confident, people will believe in you.
*If you forgive, people will forgive you.
*If you are responsible, people with count on you.

You are yourself, They are themselves. Like Action = Like Result.

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Law of Attraction

Let us begin by discussing one of the many laws in life – The Law of Attraction. This is a very simple law yet not everyone can practice. Whatever it is that you impress, contemplate or visualize in your mind will come to pass. This law can be applied by feeding your mind with a successful idea for success to happen in your life. It is so amazing how human being is capable of creating his own life - and that is THE POWER OF YOUR MIND. Whatever it is that you think it is possible.

The person you are today is the person you thought yesterday. Do not wait for tomorrow to arrive, do not procrastinate. Impress a thought in your mind today, a thought that you have the power to create anything you want to create.

Prepare yourself by acting right now for you to be ready whenever it arrives. It is important that you act rightly in the environment that you are now, you deal with the people around you today. Act upon present with all your heart, with all you mind and with all your strength. You will soon get there, there are plenty of time. Do not over-work yourself, be excellent in what you do without being obsess to accomplish a week task in a day.

If you feel that you are in the wrong place - wrong job, wrong people or business do not wait for the right things to happen. Act now, act in a Certain Way you will surely get the certain result you want.

Strongly hold with faith and purpose the kind future that you want by acting in a Certain Way in your present time. Life is now! Begin today.

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Certain Way

The

Art of

Being

Certain

Life is confusing.
Life has so many distractions.
Life has failures.
Life is disappointing.
Life is unknown.

Upon seeing the top five expressions about life, can you tell yourself now how certain do you live? The statements that are posted above have no purpose of impressing a negative thought on your mind. Think about your life now? Can you relate to the above statements?

Wattle D. Wallace noted on his writing on the Science of Getting Rich that like action is like result, he called it THE CERTAIN WAY. This way is the best way to consider if a man wants to live a particular life. In order for him to arrive a particular destination he must know where he is specifically going and go there creatively.

The Art of Being Certain is an addition to the many ways of living a fuller and happier life. Long before I started writing here I created a certain idea over my head. I am certain that my writing has no goal of changing your life. Again, I am not here to change you but to give you the CHOICE of becoming yourself.

Life is confusing to people who are confused. You can never become a goal-oriented person if you do not know yourself. Life is not really confusing, it is only confusing if the person responsible in that life is confused. So clarify your vision, magnify your dream and understand your being. You can only become yourself when you accept who you are. Do not be too preoccupied, declare to yourself that LIFE IS NOT CONFUSING!


Life has so many distractions to people who entertain distractions. If you know yourself you will never allow distraction to distract you. What is it that you want to create? Are those things distracting you today can help you or bring you where you are going? Identify, Classify those distractions if they are worth entertaining. Never stay at one point, continuously go and grow because the more you stay the more you will be distracted and it will prolong you to get to your certain destination.

Life has failures but it shall never stop you from moving, going and keeping yourself certain. Giving up is failure's bestfriend but why will you give up? As saying goes, "When you think of giving up, remember the reason that held you from giving up." You already have invested something for your dreams when you face life's failure there is no choice of giving up. Fight, life has its own game, do not compete but create your game plan. Thrive to go as far as you can reach.

Life is disappointing if you are not satisfied with yourself. You live a certain life, if disappointment comes do not be disappointed, it is only for now but there is another day to work for. Create a life with more gratitude than disappointment. After a day, do not count on the things that disappoint you but on things that make you feel satisfied. Remember, you live a certain life and disappointment is not part of it. You live to be happy, to be successful, to be yourself - disappointment is not on your list. Be CERTAIN!

Life is unknown if you do not understand your life's purpose. How to be certain? Like action is like result - this is the Art of Being Certain. Act with known reason and known result is yours. Be yourself!

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5 Practices to Real Happiness

I have always been telling myself that happiness is a state of mind. I believe that everyone has his or her fountain of happiness but this fountain is not always use and sometimes neglected to be used forever.

In order for one to be fully happy he or she must understand the real meaning of happiness. My intention in writing the following points is not to present a suggestion for you to follow but an idea for you to ponder. Again, life is about choices – you can create your own happiness.

1.      Practice to be happy.

Happiness is not something that can be achieved from receiving something instead happiness can be found even if you do not have anything. The very first thing in the morning that you think if you are a really happy person is to breath with a happy perspective in mind. Can you check the type of happiness making you today?

Real happiness                                          Temporary happiness

Can be achieved for a lifetime                   Can only be achieved for a moment

Can be expressed from within                   Can only be expressed from material being

Is counted on everything you have             Is only counted on something you have.

Is felt without known reason                       Is only felt with known reason

As happy person you know the difference between real happiness and temporary happiness.  Remember happiness is not about something but it is about everything.

2. Practice self-acceptance.

Self-acceptance is self-expression. If you are able to accept yourself, your uniqueness you will never find any unhappy reason in your day. The moment you honor yourself, you will find greater self-esteem and respect that you exist for you own ways and not for the ways of others.

You will not think or follow on how society dictates but how yourself dictate for your life. You own your life as much as you own your happiness. Do not aim to be somebody else, you are born to be yourself – Express it by accepting it!

           

3. Build Relationship.

When you are happy you do not hide but share the whole you. You are never afraid to invest to good relationship. You will keep on touching many lives but giving them the reason to live for another happy days.

                       

4. Enjoy life.

Life is not about your past but it is about you today and your future.  When you understand that life is now, you will grab every single moment of your life to enjoy and celebrate every piece of it.

Learning to celebrate life is learning to maximize it. You optimize what you can do in a day because you know tomorrow has its own thing – you make the most out of today. If you enjoy life you will not stick on regret and resentment instead you think and count on the blessing you are receiving and continuously claim, appreciate and share them.

5. Appreciate life

Gratitude can lead to happiness. You do not mind how the circumstances are happening if you have a grateful heart but you mind on how you remain happy over those circumstances.

As saying goes, “Circumstances shape you.” Appreciate it by counting it as a blessing for you to be better and happier every single day in you life.

  

Start today because life is now. Since you know that happiness is a state of mind DECLARE it! You are happy with real happiness in life.

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20/20

More than the vision20/20 sometimes you do not need your sight to be normal for you to see a clearer vision on the things around you.

More than the eye of a normal vision, we need to see beyond the visible world. We have to use more than the senses that we have – the FAITH.

In this vision, you do not need an open eye but a heart widely open to understand what you really want in life.
In the following pages I will be showing you my personal experience in applying and understanding this 6th sense. The sense of FAITH.
 
I believe that having FAITH is a gift to enable us to hold with our own selves. To see what want and continuously seek and get satisfaction.

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The Law of Life

People from all ages who wanted to impress and express to people the secret, science or law of getting rich have made different titles on the power of man to change or create his own life.

Some call it the Power of Subconscious Mind, the Science of Getting Rich, the Secret, the Law of Attraction and so forth but these titles are just choices of words from people who envisioned to realized a book that can bring extraordinary motivation and result to its reader.

In my case I call it the Power of Faith. It has been repeatedly said on many writings and in bible, Believe and you shall receive them. No matter how impossible it is for you to achieve something think that you have the power to make things happen. You can never receive anything in life without even believing that you have them, you can have them no matter what.

Another phrase has been said, "you are what you think most of the time." In the game of life if you want to excel you need to have faith. Faith is our sharpest sword, it will harm no one. Think that you are successful. Grow yourself everyday.

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Developing A Habitual Thought

Believe and you will receive it. This statement was one many statements that I learned from reading about the power of human mind. The statement is very simple yet powerful in changing or transforming your life.

I am not here to convince you that I am more powerful than you are but to present to you the infinite power of your mind.

It’s all in your mind. Whatever it is that you believed to be true is called reality. Reality is yours. Whatever it is that plays on your head most of the time will determine the kind of dance you will perform in your lifetime. It will determine the kind of career you will take, the level of standard you will adhere, the quality of motivation you will bring, the condition of relationship you will maintain or even the amount of money you will make.

Your head defines you, Start to create a better head now! Here’s how…

1. Know your thoughts

Think and see yourself! The kind of thoughts you have in mind now will shape you in your lifetime. So spend most of your time in contemplating on right things for you to live right. Good things for you to achieve better things. Stay happy for you to be happy.

Remember that you are what you think most of the time. So continuously affirm on things that are desirable. The people around you do not matter in shaping you, think that you are the master of your own ship. Reality belongs to you, you create your own reality.

2. Develop a Healthy Mind

Your mind is the master of all that is happening in you life yesterday, today and tomorrow. Only feed you mind with healthy thought for you to maintain the right shape.

Claim this:

Healthy mind radiates health.
Wealthy mind creates wealth.
Satisfied mind generates happiness.

It’s all in your mind. If you change your thinking today, your attention will be shifted to that change. Choose to be a living fountain of blessing, love, wealth, success, happiness and motivation by developing a healthy mind. Your heart brings and expresses emotions but this emotions are interpreted and resounded by your mind. Create a mind that defines life in the best way possible.

3. Receive what you deserve to receive

The advantage of choosing the right thinking in life is to receive the right blessing RIGHT NOW and FOREVER, Whatever it is that you want to achieve believe that you already have them. It’s already given, it’s yours since the day you were born.

For you to discover and enjoy it’s full benefit and potential you have to claim it. Declare that it’s in your hand. You are your life’s designer, build a stronger and healthy dream now!

Memo: To think is to be. Think happy and happiness is yours. Think wealthy and wealth is yours. Think everything because the universe has everything for you, it’s infinite.
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