7:55 PM
certain mind
Monday, May 30, 2011
10 Ways to Be Yourself
2) Be honest – If you want to be the best person in your lifetime, be honest to yourself. When you face yourself you face all the imperfections in you and respect all your being. You will find a greater sense of self-esteem and pride knowing that you master your mind by having the honesty and connection with your inner soul.
3) Take a moment with yourself – Troubled by choices? Take a deep breath and feel the air as you inhale and exhale them. Feel your freedom. Yourself is the greatest thinker in your time so when you hesitate in deciding or choosing things give yourself an ample time. Relax and never get pressured because at the end of the day the choices you make are always the right choices. If it gets wrong you are not really wrong, it only needs a little improvement.
4) Ask questions – When you feel sad thinking about failures just ask question but never blame yourself. Take enough pride that your choices are your choices, your responsibilities. Are you really wrong? Think again you might just be missing something. When you ask question to yourself do not right away ask for the solution but ask for the reason and the solution will be presented upon you.
5) Respect your inner self – Sometimes the world around us is just so filled with unnecessary things, with unessential options, unwanted offers. The best way to communicate to yourself is by LISTENING. Listen to your inner soul and you will hear it expressing your real desires.
6.) Think again - Are you counting deadlines in making choices? Are you lost in trying to understand yourself?Think again is the word for you, from the present find yourself in your future and in your past. Who was the person you are seeing 10 years ago and who will be the person you want to see 10 years after? Your dreams 10 years from now shall be directing you to perform what it needs to be done now in order to achieve it in the future.
7.) Be generous to yourself - Your success is useless when you can't have them. Life is a race but before that race ends give yourself the chance to smile, to love and be loved by those people around you.
8.) Make everyday your day - Everyday is a new day, yesterday was history, tomorrow is mystery and today is a blessing - it's called present, a present that needs to be shared and experienced.
9.) Plant only good seeds - What you sows is what you reap. If you want to have a sweet harvest plant your seeds with the right sweetness and care. Life is not about harvesting and harvesting but it is about planting, nurturing and harvesting. Your life has its own vegetation. It is germinating today for its fruitation tomorrow.
10.) Be yourself - After all, myself is nothing but my ‘self. You are the master of your own journey, travel it with the right compass.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
You Have the Power
How you feel is how you perform things. How do you feel now? How many excuses have you made to miss the things that are really important to you? Sometimes we are too preoccupied on things around us. We make so many excuses to ourselves and neglected good relationships with the people we love.
The first thing you should consider in dealing with your disorganize life is to organize it. How? Declare it to your self, to your mind, into your life. Allow your mind to accept an organize thought that you are in control of your life. Making excuses is not an answer to any problem. Face it and you will get the power to solve it, realize it and make it happen.
Instead of saying these expressions:
I am sad.
I am nothing.
I am weak.
I am a loser.
Re-evaluate your mind. Dwell on positivity instead of negativity. Remember how you think is how you make it happen. Negative thinking creates negative reaction, re-create your mind by thinking with positivity and power.
Say this thing to yourself:
I deserve second chance.
I am in control of my life.
I have the power to change myself.
I know my capabilities, I can make things happen.
Everything is possible. Positivity is power. Believe in yourself and you believe in the power of positivity. Life is today. Possibility is everyday.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Talk to Your Self
Look well into thyself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if thou wilt always look there. — Marcus Aurelius
Whenever I feel sad or disappointed about things happening around me there is one person I can run to, that is - MYSELF. I could still remember those days when I was so challenged and weak. I thought to be alone but in that loneliness I never realized not until now that I was not really alone.
Talking to yourself is one great way of understanding your life. Whatever sadness you are going through, whichever problem you are finding an answer there is always a pool of knowledge within you. A source of infinite solutions to your frustrations.
When you talk to yourself you do not hide anything. You become the real you. You don't hide the imperfections in you. Instead, you release all the tensions and pressures you are feeling inside. When you talk to the person inside you - you accept yourself. You find more reasons to get better and be better every time things go wrong.
Reward yourself to think for a while, to be happy and relax. Always remember that no matter how good or bad the situation is there is nothing you can do about it but deal with it. Life is fragile handle it with care.
