Friday, April 22, 2011

10 Simple Ways to Overcome Disappointment

Everyone is disappointed at SOME POINT in their lives. Perhaps you did not achieve or realize what you were wanting to have. After all the efforts you still feel incomplete or empty or even unfulfilled. I have highlighted the word SOME POINT because you I want you to reckon on the fact that disappointment is normal.
This is part of being human, so you have to decide whether to dwell with it or move on. Disappointment can be an ugly thing. Ugly thing because it will make you look ugly and depress.

Before reading any further, think again do you want to be ugly or not? If not, then read the following ways to overcome disappointment.

1. Workout - If something is disturbing me, I move and motivate my self to workout. Exercising can be a great way of releasing the tension. You will feel energize and come to a new solution. 


2. Magnify your dream - You have a dream, so whatever would be happening reactivate your passion, your drive to achieve for your dreams. I will always remember what an old friend has been telling me, "Yesterday was history, tomorrow is mystery and today is the day, it's a blessing that's why it's called PRESENT. Visualize your future by dealing with the present.

3. Socialize - It is always wonderful to be with the people. If you are disappointed try to find a friend and walk a talk. Hearing even a single word of motivation from someone can be a big help to inspire you to be a fighter in your game.

4. Smile - If you are feeling disappointed and eating a dose of chocolate make you smile then eat. If you have a passion in writing, express what you feel. A life made with smile is a life made with happiness.

5. Go Read - Adding another scoop of knowledge to your cup can be a great tool in moving forward. When your disappointed it does not mean that you are a loser, try to win by learning something new.

6. Breath - Disappointed? What then? Whatever thing is bothering you now you are still alive. Take a deep breath, feel the air as you inhale and exhale it. Meditate, appreciate life by looking at the other corner of you life.

7. You Make Your Choice - Whatever thing is happening to you now, it is happening. Can you stop them? No, deal with them Life is fragile so handle it with care by making smarter choices every time you fail.

8. You are not Alone - If everything goes wrong and you think the people around you is not helping, think again He is inside you. God is with you. You are His investment therefore, God will never forsake you. Ask for guidance, ask for strength, ask for enlightenment.

9. Motivation - Is it the end? Try to compare yourself with the people you are seeing on the street. See the kids without family, the teens without a home - they are still moving. Be motivated, do something better. You might be a failure on your first decision butt it does not mean you were wrong, it just a little improvement.

10. Forgive Yourself - There is nothing you can do about dismantlement without forgiving yourself. Understand that life is an exciting journey, a battle that needs winning. Win yourself by forgiving your mistakes.

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