Past is Past

Any success in life is achievable. Whoever you were or whatever things you experienced in you past, It should never make you a bad or good person today and in the future. Life is not about the past but it is about the future beginning from the present.

If you want to succeed in you life, always remember that the things you can achieve in the future is never equal to your past. Your past only shapes you. It will only help you become a better person, it should allow you to continuously learn a lesson from you failures, your sorrow or even you joy.

Because you failed yesterday; or all day today; or a moment ago; or for the last six months; the last sixteen years; or the last fifty years of life, doesn't mean anything... All that matters is: What are you going to do, right now? - (Anthony Robbins)

Your challenge now is to answer this - Are you willing to be the person you should have been for you to achieve what you always desire in life? Things can happen in right time. Dreams can be realized in time. All you need to have is give time to yourself. Understand your failures, disappointment and desperation - What causes them and what should you do in order to use them. Utilize them as your gear and shield to reach the star you always wanted to reach.

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How to be Positive

Life is beautiful. Beautiful feeling realizes beauty. Healthy feeling generates health. Wealthy feeling creates wealth. How do you feel now?

This past few days we were driven with worries, fears and insecurities. We showed to people that we were happy, we pretended to be the unreal us. Try to create a self focused idea now and imagine you are on my place. Feel every answer as it is written.

Who am I? What I really want?

In our lives before we can finally move forward we should try to answer these propositions for us to answer the "HOW." How will we make it? How can we be happy?

Who am i? This question recognizes your real weakness as a person which will give you opportunities. It also allows you to accept your threats for you to divert it into strengths. This will help you find your identity.

Who am I?

I am a human being of HIS kind.
I am intelligently created by God.
I am a blessing to everyone I meet.
I am healthy internally and externally.
I am strong.
I am an achiever.
I am a creation with infinite powers.
I create what I believe I can.


What I want?

This will answer your preferences and desires to reach. This is a journey to the specific destiny. This is giving you a choice to choose. Set your priorities to realize in life. Want to be wanted.

What I want?

I want to live with perfect happiness, health and harmony.
I accept failures but I never allow it to stop me.
I want to discover infinite opportunities for other and for my self.
I want to be called a son of God.

How can I achieve it?

You have two hearts. You are a being of a unilateral functions. Your mind is divided into two - the waking mind is allowing you to think and do the voluntary tasks of your body while the sleeping mind is giving you the opportunity to contact HIM. Your sleeping mind is your soul giving you the access to your GOD, your Creator.

For you to be successful, you must learn to be human and to be Godly. Your brain is worldward while your soul is Lifeward, Godward.

Move to where you think you should go. The perfect map to happy thoughts in life is life with faith.

In order for you to reach what you want, try to feel it. Feel who you really are. What you really are. Then finally, you will see it. You will make it.

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Creating a Criteria Towards Others

Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You - Matthew 7:12

Living a harmonious relationship with others is like living in peace within ourselves. Whatever things we like to do to ourselves should be done to others. Whenever people say they hate their peers for some reason, they are actually starting to dislike themselves.

As Matthew 7:1 stated, "Judge not, that you may not be judged". Life is about acceptance. We can only expect to be accepted if we open our minds to the idea that we create others perception towards us.

Setting a criteria towards others is like setting a picture of who you are and how you appear before them. If you feed you mind with the idea that you are friendly then you will find more friends. You will not find any bad reason to be rejected by others. It will reflect to them that you are an ideal person to be with because you portray personality that they will surely like.

The moment you create a good criteria within you, you will then become a better person as you are now. Happiness comes to you, Friends come to you and Life is yours. You will respect your existence and be able to respect others existence.

As respect begets respect.

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Achieving Real Happiness

Life is how you make it. I believe that happiness is a state of mind. so when you think you are happy then you'll surely be happy. We can always feels satisfaction in ourselves as long as we know ourselves. whatever negative thoughts people will say, we should never be and can never be affected.

You know who you are. Dogs only bark to strangers, so understand people that they are barking like dogs because you are unfamiliar to them. Do not allow circumstances of controversy eat you., allow it to shape you a better and brave person.

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Lifeward Living

Life is but a choice.

We always hear this phrase whenever we think about life, about ourselves. But have we ever thought of our choices? Sometimes we are so eager of achieving greater things in life, expecting things in our career and even fulfilling promises to our relationships but we do not try to consider the choices life has for us.

The greatest discovery of any generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitude. - William James

Attitude, this is one thing we should be considering when we make choices. Our attitude should be making decisions that are lifeward. We know our desires and our own attitude. We can assess if our attitude now is acceptable towards others. Do we have the attitude that can tell, "I will make it."

WE can always make it, we can always move lifeward and that is the best choice we have in our life. We work to survive, we excel to achieve. Nobody wants to work for nothing. Whatever things we do, it's always lifeward. Lifeward life means living a life, a wonderful life for ourselves and for others. We do not exist today just to die tomorrow for nothing. But we exist now from the kind of choices we are making everyday.

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Thank You, Does it matter to you?

"Make it a habit to say thank you." These are the words posted on the wall of our class in highschool. I never thought to adopt and make it a habit 'til now.

On my first job as waiter in a luxury hotel, I was able to serve different guests with various requests. Of all those guests I smiled and served for, I will never forget the face of the 5 year old boy I served on the Chinese New Year of 2011.

After refilling 12 glasses of water on the presidential table I heard no thank you's from the guests seated on the table except a five year old boy who said to me, "Thank you."

My heart really smiled as I feel the kindness of this child. He is just a child but a child with a thought mature people need. Small things are small but we need to appreciate them. No matter how young or old you are, you need to be mindful and sensitive to others.

"Thank you" is a small phrase. It has no price. Priceless but valuable. I want to imagine seeing a world made with "THANK YOU'S." What a wonderful world seeing people from all races, all ages, all walks of life sharing a smile in their hearts.

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ONE IDEAL JOB

What is an ideal job for you? Is it the high paid job or the job with highest learning and growth?

Last November 2010, I applied as management trainee or a team member at Classic Savory Restaurant. It was my first choice to work as management trainee because I have the faith on my capabilities of handling things. During that time my application at Marco Polo Davao as a Banquet waiter was still a limbo.

During my application I know I satisfied the interviewer though they have not confirmed it yet I know it was a YES.

Finally they called me today telling me that I just got the job and asking me to quit from my present job. The option was a two months training in Manila with free air fare and accommodation in top of that was the 400+++ salary per day.

All I need to do was resign and work for them. I can admit that I was really interested in working with a rank. I know I have the skills and competent but more than any other offer – I can’t leave my present job.

In my job now I get to carry chairs and table, serve orders and other request, and set-up function rooms for the different events. For me this is an ideal job because even if I work without a rank I know that everyday I am learning what it needs to be on the rank. Little by little while I’m on this rope I keep on growing.

I do not see myself being shortchanged with lesser salary. The opportunity of personal and professional growth I have now is enough for my to say I’m happy with my first job. All the overtime duties are paid well with fun and excitement. After my 150 days legendary journey here, I will leave Marco Polo with great pride that I work during my working hours.

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