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certain mind
Monday, May 30, 2011
10 Ways to Be Yourself
2) Be honest – If you want to be the best person in your lifetime, be honest to yourself. When you face yourself you face all the imperfections in you and respect all your being. You will find a greater sense of self-esteem and pride knowing that you master your mind by having the honesty and connection with your inner soul.
3) Take a moment with yourself – Troubled by choices? Take a deep breath and feel the air as you inhale and exhale them. Feel your freedom. Yourself is the greatest thinker in your time so when you hesitate in deciding or choosing things give yourself an ample time. Relax and never get pressured because at the end of the day the choices you make are always the right choices. If it gets wrong you are not really wrong, it only needs a little improvement.
4) Ask questions – When you feel sad thinking about failures just ask question but never blame yourself. Take enough pride that your choices are your choices, your responsibilities. Are you really wrong? Think again you might just be missing something. When you ask question to yourself do not right away ask for the solution but ask for the reason and the solution will be presented upon you.
5) Respect your inner self – Sometimes the world around us is just so filled with unnecessary things, with unessential options, unwanted offers. The best way to communicate to yourself is by LISTENING. Listen to your inner soul and you will hear it expressing your real desires.
6.) Think again - Are you counting deadlines in making choices? Are you lost in trying to understand yourself?Think again is the word for you, from the present find yourself in your future and in your past. Who was the person you are seeing 10 years ago and who will be the person you want to see 10 years after? Your dreams 10 years from now shall be directing you to perform what it needs to be done now in order to achieve it in the future.
7.) Be generous to yourself - Your success is useless when you can't have them. Life is a race but before that race ends give yourself the chance to smile, to love and be loved by those people around you.
8.) Make everyday your day - Everyday is a new day, yesterday was history, tomorrow is mystery and today is a blessing - it's called present, a present that needs to be shared and experienced.
9.) Plant only good seeds - What you sows is what you reap. If you want to have a sweet harvest plant your seeds with the right sweetness and care. Life is not about harvesting and harvesting but it is about planting, nurturing and harvesting. Your life has its own vegetation. It is germinating today for its fruitation tomorrow.
10.) Be yourself - After all, myself is nothing but my ‘self. You are the master of your own journey, travel it with the right compass.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
You Have the Power
How you feel is how you perform things. How do you feel now? How many excuses have you made to miss the things that are really important to you? Sometimes we are too preoccupied on things around us. We make so many excuses to ourselves and neglected good relationships with the people we love.
The first thing you should consider in dealing with your disorganize life is to organize it. How? Declare it to your self, to your mind, into your life. Allow your mind to accept an organize thought that you are in control of your life. Making excuses is not an answer to any problem. Face it and you will get the power to solve it, realize it and make it happen.
Instead of saying these expressions:
I am sad.
I am nothing.
I am weak.
I am a loser.
Re-evaluate your mind. Dwell on positivity instead of negativity. Remember how you think is how you make it happen. Negative thinking creates negative reaction, re-create your mind by thinking with positivity and power.
Say this thing to yourself:
I deserve second chance.
I am in control of my life.
I have the power to change myself.
I know my capabilities, I can make things happen.
Everything is possible. Positivity is power. Believe in yourself and you believe in the power of positivity. Life is today. Possibility is everyday.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Talk to Your Self
Look well into thyself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if thou wilt always look there. — Marcus Aurelius
Whenever I feel sad or disappointed about things happening around me there is one person I can run to, that is - MYSELF. I could still remember those days when I was so challenged and weak. I thought to be alone but in that loneliness I never realized not until now that I was not really alone.
Talking to yourself is one great way of understanding your life. Whatever sadness you are going through, whichever problem you are finding an answer there is always a pool of knowledge within you. A source of infinite solutions to your frustrations.
When you talk to yourself you do not hide anything. You become the real you. You don't hide the imperfections in you. Instead, you release all the tensions and pressures you are feeling inside. When you talk to the person inside you - you accept yourself. You find more reasons to get better and be better every time things go wrong.
Reward yourself to think for a while, to be happy and relax. Always remember that no matter how good or bad the situation is there is nothing you can do about it but deal with it. Life is fragile handle it with care.
Saturday, April 23, 2011
10 Right Things to Remember to Live Right
1. Eat Right.
The quality of food you eat will make you the right you. Everything you input inside your system will circulate into your system. So eat right and live well.
2. Work Right.
When you work right you achieve things the right way. If you want to reach better goals work with better goals. Doing the same thing over and over again is having the same result over and over again. As an old saying goes, You can only get better when you decide to be better."
3. Think Right.
The person you are inside is the person you can be outside. Everything you think is manifested through your action. For you to act right you have to think right. You are the master of your own universe. Control your ind with positivity. Right actions are the reactions of right emotions.
4. Exercise Right.
When you exercise you release all the negativity. Happiness can be easily achieve by moving your body parts. Stretch out and you stretch your brain. The more the activities you engage the more your brain produces happy hormones.
5. Rest Right.
Sleep creates wonders. When you feel exhausted, give yourself a chance to take some rest. Sleep with peace and you will wake up with peace. Surrender is the key word, give up all your fears. Nothings is impossible with faith so never pressure yourself, take the right rest now.
6. Build Right Relationships
The best thing about life is having great people around you. Smile, celebrate and appreciate with your love ones. Nothing is more important that relationship. We live to live with the people around us!
7. Celebrate Right.
Life is short when you do not make the most of it. Enjoy all the opportunities to enjoy.
8. Spend Time Right.
Time is life so use it rightly. Once you let a day pass doing nothing you let a part of your life empty. Do something small now, little by little it will grow.
9. Appreciate Right.
Bad or good it happens for a purpose. Never dwell to any negativity. If you fail you fail, learn, grow and move on. Later you will understand why it is happening. THANK God for the day.
10. Stay Right at All Times.
You will never go wrong if you are doing right. Act right now and react right later.
P.S.
Wasted time is wasted success so start right now. :-)
The quality of food you eat will make you the right you. Everything you input inside your system will circulate into your system. So eat right and live well.
2. Work Right.
When you work right you achieve things the right way. If you want to reach better goals work with better goals. Doing the same thing over and over again is having the same result over and over again. As an old saying goes, You can only get better when you decide to be better."
3. Think Right.
The person you are inside is the person you can be outside. Everything you think is manifested through your action. For you to act right you have to think right. You are the master of your own universe. Control your ind with positivity. Right actions are the reactions of right emotions.
4. Exercise Right.
When you exercise you release all the negativity. Happiness can be easily achieve by moving your body parts. Stretch out and you stretch your brain. The more the activities you engage the more your brain produces happy hormones.
5. Rest Right.
Sleep creates wonders. When you feel exhausted, give yourself a chance to take some rest. Sleep with peace and you will wake up with peace. Surrender is the key word, give up all your fears. Nothings is impossible with faith so never pressure yourself, take the right rest now.
6. Build Right Relationships
The best thing about life is having great people around you. Smile, celebrate and appreciate with your love ones. Nothing is more important that relationship. We live to live with the people around us!
7. Celebrate Right.
Life is short when you do not make the most of it. Enjoy all the opportunities to enjoy.
8. Spend Time Right.
Time is life so use it rightly. Once you let a day pass doing nothing you let a part of your life empty. Do something small now, little by little it will grow.
9. Appreciate Right.
Bad or good it happens for a purpose. Never dwell to any negativity. If you fail you fail, learn, grow and move on. Later you will understand why it is happening. THANK God for the day.
10. Stay Right at All Times.
You will never go wrong if you are doing right. Act right now and react right later.
P.S.
Wasted time is wasted success so start right now. :-)
The Park
"God is calling you again."
People's Park, Davao City - While I was at this place another calling has come upon me. I was there for almost two hours and I considered those hours another golden hours in my day. Like a wonderful promise of forgiveness from God, He sent me three of His youngest and newest disciples in my generation today.
The first person He sent me was a 14 year old young boy named Renz. Wearing a summer short and a T-shirt with his sling bag, this boy approached me and said, " Are you waiting for someone? Can we talk?"
To my kindness I said my generous "Yes, sure." He introduced himself to me not as a young boy but a mover, an evangelist of God's loving words. I knew almost everything he was saying to me since I already have accepted Christ 4 years ago, but I never realized about his topic. Patience. What is really patience?
He was talking to me to be patient but I was learning from him about God's patience, He is a loving Father with an eternal patience. I already have accepted Christ but sometimes I do not live His ways. God is patient - that no matter how I sin He perfectly knows I am coming back to Him.
The next persons I met were DK and Brylle, a gentlemen in my age wearing the same shirt with a printed word FREE PRAYER. Do I really need this? Another generosity from my time I allowed them to pray for my regrets in losing my bestfriend who committed suicide.
If I was generous that night, they were more generous. I only asked them to pray for my regrets and yet they prayed for almost all the hidden desires of my heart - my family, career, health and many other petitions.
After blessing me with the FREE PRAYERS, we have introduced ourselves and I can still remember what I told them. "Thank you, I never knew People's Park is becoming a holy place now.
God is calling me, He is calling you also. Do you hear Him calling us now?
People's Park, Davao City - While I was at this place another calling has come upon me. I was there for almost two hours and I considered those hours another golden hours in my day. Like a wonderful promise of forgiveness from God, He sent me three of His youngest and newest disciples in my generation today.
The first person He sent me was a 14 year old young boy named Renz. Wearing a summer short and a T-shirt with his sling bag, this boy approached me and said, " Are you waiting for someone? Can we talk?"
To my kindness I said my generous "Yes, sure." He introduced himself to me not as a young boy but a mover, an evangelist of God's loving words. I knew almost everything he was saying to me since I already have accepted Christ 4 years ago, but I never realized about his topic. Patience. What is really patience?
He was talking to me to be patient but I was learning from him about God's patience, He is a loving Father with an eternal patience. I already have accepted Christ but sometimes I do not live His ways. God is patient - that no matter how I sin He perfectly knows I am coming back to Him.
The next persons I met were DK and Brylle, a gentlemen in my age wearing the same shirt with a printed word FREE PRAYER. Do I really need this? Another generosity from my time I allowed them to pray for my regrets in losing my bestfriend who committed suicide.
If I was generous that night, they were more generous. I only asked them to pray for my regrets and yet they prayed for almost all the hidden desires of my heart - my family, career, health and many other petitions.
After blessing me with the FREE PRAYERS, we have introduced ourselves and I can still remember what I told them. "Thank you, I never knew People's Park is becoming a holy place now.
God is calling me, He is calling you also. Do you hear Him calling us now?
Suicide
Everyone plays a role in our lives. Losing someone is like losing a part of our existence. Once you lose them, you lose them forever...
I was in so much pain 3 days after my birthday this year. I lost my bestfriend, to me she is like a sister. Together we dreamed, we fought, we enjoyed life and met God. I can still remember all the first times we did together. First times that became our last times now.
I don't want to live my life in regret but until now I am still hurting. Hurting knowing that I could have done something to stop her death. Now I am longing for her but I can never win her back. She is forever gone physically.
When I was in sorrow, weeping for her death I have seen a different reality and realized a thing about life. That is - You live one life, take good care of it.
I don't want to blame or condemn her from ending her own life but in her death I have learned so many things about RELATIONSHIP.
Before she died, I have not met her for almost 3 months. I was so busy in my work and I haven't put enough attention to her. My birthday was our last communication.
When she died I found out how hopeless and helpless she was before dieing. Her professors insulted her and broke her hopes into pieces as what she stated on her suicide note.
During her wake, I saw the pain of her family specially her mother, her friends and everyone else whom she inspired and cared during her lifetime.
After her death, I can feel the pouring love of her mother. I witnessed the support and prayers of her friends.
Now I realized four things out of those four scenarios. First,"Relationship deserves no better excuses." Never say you can't come because you are busy. Once our family, our friend leaves us they leaves us forever. So try not to miss the chance of celebrating a life with them.
Second, "Breaking hopes is killing lives." If you can help yourself from not saying any hurting words to others, avoid them. The Bible says, "You shall not kill." Everyday is a blessing, never devastate that blessing from hurting the feeling of others. Respect people by becoming more sensitive.
Third, "Never make it a choice to end you own life." Again, I do not condemn my bestfriend from leaving this world on her own choice but I saw the pain of being left out. She was a beautiful woman, intelligent, faithful to God and a fighter. If you consider ending your own life think again, How many people will suffer from losing you? Who will be in pain in missing you? What will happen to the sacrifices and love of the people around you? Who will play your role in the life of others?
Finally, "Once you die, you die." God promises a life of happiness. God has a plan. What will happen to those plans? For now, I am seeing her death as a blessing for me to inspire other people. I know she lived a very meaningful years on earth, she cared and touched many lives in her days, she gave a wonderful smile to everyone around. Her death is not the end. I have forgiven myself now from not doing a thing to stop her death, maybe it was God's plan - we can never tell but God loves us unconditionally, that is a fact.
After my eyes, I saw how she accepted Christ as her personal savior. God is fair. May she rest in peace. I love her and I want my love for her to move me in making other lives meaningful, to save the hopeless by giving them hope. Life is a journey, I will have my own journey with our sweet memories.
I was in so much pain 3 days after my birthday this year. I lost my bestfriend, to me she is like a sister. Together we dreamed, we fought, we enjoyed life and met God. I can still remember all the first times we did together. First times that became our last times now.
I don't want to live my life in regret but until now I am still hurting. Hurting knowing that I could have done something to stop her death. Now I am longing for her but I can never win her back. She is forever gone physically.
When I was in sorrow, weeping for her death I have seen a different reality and realized a thing about life. That is - You live one life, take good care of it.
I don't want to blame or condemn her from ending her own life but in her death I have learned so many things about RELATIONSHIP.
Before she died, I have not met her for almost 3 months. I was so busy in my work and I haven't put enough attention to her. My birthday was our last communication.
When she died I found out how hopeless and helpless she was before dieing. Her professors insulted her and broke her hopes into pieces as what she stated on her suicide note.
During her wake, I saw the pain of her family specially her mother, her friends and everyone else whom she inspired and cared during her lifetime.
After her death, I can feel the pouring love of her mother. I witnessed the support and prayers of her friends.
Now I realized four things out of those four scenarios. First,"Relationship deserves no better excuses." Never say you can't come because you are busy. Once our family, our friend leaves us they leaves us forever. So try not to miss the chance of celebrating a life with them.
Second, "Breaking hopes is killing lives." If you can help yourself from not saying any hurting words to others, avoid them. The Bible says, "You shall not kill." Everyday is a blessing, never devastate that blessing from hurting the feeling of others. Respect people by becoming more sensitive.
Third, "Never make it a choice to end you own life." Again, I do not condemn my bestfriend from leaving this world on her own choice but I saw the pain of being left out. She was a beautiful woman, intelligent, faithful to God and a fighter. If you consider ending your own life think again, How many people will suffer from losing you? Who will be in pain in missing you? What will happen to the sacrifices and love of the people around you? Who will play your role in the life of others?
Finally, "Once you die, you die." God promises a life of happiness. God has a plan. What will happen to those plans? For now, I am seeing her death as a blessing for me to inspire other people. I know she lived a very meaningful years on earth, she cared and touched many lives in her days, she gave a wonderful smile to everyone around. Her death is not the end. I have forgiven myself now from not doing a thing to stop her death, maybe it was God's plan - we can never tell but God loves us unconditionally, that is a fact.
After my eyes, I saw how she accepted Christ as her personal savior. God is fair. May she rest in peace. I love her and I want my love for her to move me in making other lives meaningful, to save the hopeless by giving them hope. Life is a journey, I will have my own journey with our sweet memories.
